In most cases, having an affair on the side, married women at a certain vital moment will want to interrupt it. But how to break the relationship correctly, without scandals and nervous breakdowns, how to tell the lover that we are parting? It is necessary to act here in accordance with a concrete situation.
The most fortunate combination of circumstances, when both partners cooled to each other. In this case it will be enough just to talk heart to heart, to thank the lover for a pleasantly spent leisure and say goodbye.
You can leave without saying a word, stop all contacts. This option is acceptable when a woman is sure that her partner will react calmly to such actions and will not seek her in attempts to take revenge.
It will be harder if the partner turns out to be selfish. In this case, it will be difficult for him to realize that he is being thrown. Be sure - he will not give up without a fight. Therefore, you do not need to choose words for parting or somehow hint about a break. You should do everything so that the lover himself threw you: to cut off communication, for a long time not to get in touch, constantly to swear and saw him on trifles.
How to part with your lover?
If the partner is understanding, then try to explain to him the true reason for your departure, tell us that the relationship has simply exhausted itself.
If there are suggestions that a man, most likely, does not take your decision adequately, you need to prepare it in advance. So your separation for him will be less painful.
How to part with a lover - advice of a psychologist
- Do not delay the time of rupture. If the decision is made, act.
- Tell me directly that your relationship is unpromising.
- If the lover continues to seek a meeting after a conversation - ignore.
- Devote yourself to family, work, hobbies. Diversify your life: sign up for fitness, go to a gym or pool.
- Try to spend leisure time more profitably.
How painless to part with your lover?
Any break entails emotional wounds, especially if a woman has a lover or a feeling of love or affection.
The only thing you can help yourself in this case is to get psychologically tuned. Try to discern weaknesses in your partner, stop idealizing him and turn a blind eye to the mistakes he made. Find negative features in his character . Think of yourself a lesson that would distract from obsessive thoughts. So reliving parting will be much easier.