Recently, our life is full of all sorts of negative, it becomes simply impossible to breathe. We, like the air, seize the kindness and tenderness of others, but few people think that it is necessary to begin, first of all, with yourself. Think about how often you condemn people, accuse them of anything, get angry and swear? Moreover, you, of course, find yourself a lot of excuses, considering that your reaction is justified: "you are too late for fifteen minutes!", "How could it be so dressed up?", Etc. And how often did you free of charge, from a pure heart, help an unfamiliar person or person below you in status? How often do you walk down the street and just enjoy today, the birds that sing around, the sun that shines so bright above your head? Answer yourself honestly, what is more in yourself, positive or negative? If you are inclined to the last option, then you should think about how to become kind and finally, take a step towards joy and happiness.
I want to become kind
There is an opinion that it is impossible to become a good man, they can only be born. May be so. But it is well known that to a greater or lesser extent, regardless of social status, skin color, physique, each of us has this most grain of kindness. And it will tell us how to become kind, affectionate, more attentive and tolerant to others.
Reasons to become kinder
- Becoming kinder to others, you become kinder to yourself.
- As you know, both evil and good, always come back to you in threefold size.
- Kindness can do better not only your life, but the world around you.
How to become nice and kind?
- Firstly, it should be remembered that the good should be not only to yourself, but first of all to others. Be responsive, try to help not only with advice, but also with deeds.
- Be grateful for all that you have or get and express your gratitude. Remember that even from the seemingly insignificant and bored "thank you", someone can become lighter in the soul.
- Cease to judge others and be better served with criticism. Remember the wisdom "Do not judge and you will not be judged."
- Treat everything with understanding, avoid conflict. Try to realize that you can never understand everyone, as not everyone can understand you, then why waste time and energy on useless quarrels.
- Make compliments, instead of noticing various shortcomings and inaccuracies, notice the positive features and do not forget to tell people about them, because such a trifle, but nice.
Kindness is an absolutely whole and indivisible concept, be kind to surrounding people, and then the whole world will be kind to you.