Test to determine the psychological age
1. Do you like your body?
A. To be honest, I have something to do with what (I have a lot of imperfections).
B. More often than not.
V. Yes, I have reconciled to my shortcomings.
2. Do you like your work?
A. I like what I do.
B. I do not like to work.
V. Not always, but there are times when you really like it (it happens rarely).
3. If at you something turns out :
A. You have a higher self-esteem.
B. You are surprised and happy.
V. For you this is a self-evident fact.
4. If you need to urgently solve a serious business issue, you:
A. You try to solve it yourself on a tight schedule.
B. Ask for help from others or shift responsibility to other people's shoulders.
Q. You postpone his decision briefly to arrive at correct conclusions and develop further tactics for conducting the case.
5. You get very good news. At the first moment you:
A. Make a form that for you it does not matter.
B. You can not believe it.
B. The feeling of joy overwhelms you.
6 . Do you often blame yourself for life's failures?
A. Rarely.
B. In all my troubles, the life circumstances, sometimes surrounding, are to blame, but not myself.
V. Sometimes it happens.
7. When you receive a salary, you:
A. Go shopping.
B. Deal with debts.
V. Postpone at once part of the money to the account, which you replenish every month.
8. Having a chronic illness, you:
A. Sami try to do everything for recovery.
B. It does not bother you much, leave everything as is.
B. Go to doctors and pharmacies.
9. Which phrase is closest to you?
A. It's good that it ends well.
B. Accept everything as is.
B. Everything that is done, for the better.
10. Do you have a dream?
A. I prefer to make plans for life, not to wander in the clouds.
B. Yes, I like to dream.
В. None. Everything that I dreamed about has already been realized.
Count, what answers did you get more - A, B or B.
More answers A
You are a "teenager". Complexes and some self-doubt, as well as your maximalism, do not allow you to grow up and become an independent person. When you are no longer worried about what others think about you, you will become more relaxed about what is happening around you. You will not be hacked from the shoulder when you need to make an important decision, and get rid of the habit of blaming everyone around you for your troubles.
More Answers B
You are a "child". Children are difficult in the world of adults. Understand important matters, take responsibility, earn and pay bills - these actions will be an indicator of adulthood.
More Answers In
You are an independent, mature personality. An adult who can, at the right moment, "include" an inner teenager or child. You know how to solve important questions, enjoy life and create.
Interpretation of results
"Adorable baby"
PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE - 7-12 YEARS
If a person ignores the demands and norms of his inner adolescent and adult, then the essence of the child will start to prevail over the other two. In psychology for such people there is a term: carriers of Peter Pen syndrome. Carefree child Peter Pen does not want to participate in a complex adult life. On the one hand, he is a charming "kid", on the other - an egocentric monster, who believes that the world must revolve around his beloved. Work, responsibility, the need to earn money and to manage the economy - all this brings Peter Foam to boredom, fear. Life should bring him only pleasure. "Adorable kid" loves computer games, joins the Potterians sect who arrange costumed parties, attends the celebrations of the fans of the movie "The Lord of the Rings" and hunts the ring with them. It is worth noting that this big child is not fully adapted to life - a 30- or 40-year-old person can be interrupted by accidental earnings, do not have a family and live a life in a nightclub or on the sofa in front of the TV.
Job
Many Pieters Peña consider studying and working as boring occupations. Therefore, often go to college, getting a job. "Here they have a hard time - and the authorities do not understand, and colleagues are boring, so they change jobs quite often," says psychologist SVETLANA DUBININ. These "children" are irresponsible, they can overwhelm the project, because "there is no inspiration". By the beginning of the day's work, they do not have time to work, they work from under the cane, trying, if possible, to stay on the sick leave. In the end, nowhere to stay long. All such earnings are ready for such people to launch on new gadgets or video games (to the detriment of utility bills).
Relations with loved ones
"Big children" perceive people in terms of usefulness and necessity. One can quickly repair his car - it means he is good friends, the other is ready at any moment to make a company for going to the club - a good friend. Friendship involves mutual obligations, which Peter Pan is unable to observe - as a result, he does not have true friends, but there are acquaintances. Relations with the parents of this "big child" combine his anger because of moralizing and the desire to cry in his vest. Parents, by the way, "Peter Pen" boldly takes money for his life. It does not help them in return.
How to communicate with them?
Relations with the "big child" are always on the edge. He, like all children, often takes offense, calls himself and wants the world to revolve around him.
1. With the boss . Such people, as a rule, do not occupy high posts. But, even content with rank, they are able to spoil your colleagues' nerves. For example, they are the best shenanigans to their superiors, so close to the "child" you need to keep your eyes open. If he does not like you, he may even collect a coalition of employees against you.
Right tactics . It is better to stay away from this "little vengeful dirty man". With him you have to communicate kindly, listen or pretend to listen to him. It's better not to talk about yourself, or someday it can be used against you.
With a young man . He is charming and charming, but if you admit that you expect decisive actions from him, he may be afraid of it. "His emotional development remained at the initial level - it's hard for him to understand what a woman wants from him. His love is the love of a 12-year-old boy. With him you can have fun, and not build a long relationship, "- says Svetlana Dubinina. If you want to create a family with him, keep in mind: he will be the second baby, after which you need eyes and eyes. With his children, "Peter" is cruel, because he comes into competition for the attention of "Mommy". To domestic life is not adapted - and can not score a nail.
Right tactics . In women, he seeks maternal love and care. But education in severity does not hurt - he pokapriznichaet, but obeys. Under the influence of a strict "mommy", he can even reach career heights.
With mom . Mom-child seems to be the embodiment of innocence, but in fact can seriously interfere with the course of your life. She will constantly demand care. From the moment you go to work, your financial responsibility will become your direct responsibility. If you and your husband live under the same roof as your mother, you will be provided with a divorce. After all, my mother believes that you can not belong to anyone other than her.
Right tactics . First, start living separately, and secondly, when she again asks you for money, refuse! And without any pangs of conscience! If the mother is not sick and not disabled, is at the age when you can still find a job, she must provide herself. And you are ready to support and help, but do not take all the care of it on yourself.
"Eternal Teenager"
PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE - 16-18 YEARS
If a person's growing up for some reason has not ended, then psychologically he is not a carefree child, but also not an adult - here we are dealing with an "eternal teenager". He has the same fears of a cruel world, but on his feet he stands tight and tries to resist all alien, showing nihilism and maximalism. The teenager has an iron will and a great desire to take place in life. At the same time, low self-esteem, which he is trying to increase at the expense of someone.
Job
"Teenagers are the best manipulators: they are ready to" go through the corpses "without looking back. They do not analyze their actions at all, they cut them off their shoulders. They are not interested in the feelings of others, because such people lack empathy (the ability to empathize). These three terms: risk, disregard for others and a talent for manipulation allow them to successfully advance up the career ladder, "- says Liza DOGODINA, psychologist, yoga therapist at the Open World Center.
Relations with loved ones
Due to the lack of empathy, the teenager develops complex relationships with relatives, and this concerns not only parents, but also friends, the other halves. The teenager believes that you can humiliate your relatives, push them around, because they love you - they definitely will not be reciprocated by aggression. Hence - the frequent conflicts in the family and with the beloved. In friends, adolescents choose a person to follow, ready to tolerate humiliation.
How to communicate with them?
With the boss . You can not contradict him, point out the imperfection of the work.
Right tactics . Praise it if possible. If you have ideas, imagine them in a favorable light: he invented everything himself, and you do it.
With a young man . He can have a family, provide for her, but will not be faithful to his wife and engage in children.
Right tactics . If you want a "teenager" to be part of a family nest, you must turn into several different women and present surprises to him every day.
With mom . It differs in that it rarely prepares and monitors the house. When you need something, she can pretend that she has business; but if she urgently needs help, you must fly through the city and be at your side immediately.
Right tactics . Do not react violently to her cries about the fact that she needs something now. If you have your own affairs, finish them. When you are free, help your mother. At first, she will be unhappy with the situation. But by prolonged work you can awaken an adult in it.
"Superstar"
PSYCHOLOGICAL AGE - 60-70 YEARS
Is it possible to say that the dominant domestic adult is what is needed for our psychological age to be adequate? No! It turns out that if an inner child and a teenager "sleep" in a person, he becomes like a deep old man.
Relations with loved ones
These people do not like entertainment, they constantly criticize everyone and around them, they are making plans, for many years to come, trying to adhere strictly to the plan.
Job
This person does not like changes - they frighten him, so he works for a long time in one place. As a rule, such individuals choose "exact" professions - everything that requires scrupulous counting and rigorous order of actions. They are responsible, honestly perform everything on time with little or no errors. And they demand the same attitude to work from co-workers: they do not tolerate it when colleagues break deadlines, fail or do everything at the last moment.
How to communicate with them?
This is a rather complex psychotype, to which one must seek its own approach.
With the boss . "Superstar" with his skills may well be in the chief's chair. Then for the subordinates there will be a war time with mandatory "curfews" and rare "dismissals". It will not be possible to deviate from the Labor Code. You must read the contract. If something you, in his opinion, goes wrong, you will immediately be fired for the article.
Right tactics . Do not shout to him and do not interrupt. Try not to be late for work, not to break deadlines and not to leave work earlier.
With a young man . With this grouch, you can hardly expect romance.
Right tactics . This unapproachable rock can be conquered by caress, care and tenderness. Never discuss with him his work and business skills.
With mom . If the mother is a "superstar", then she loves and cared for the children, but the character does not allow her to show feelings.
Right tactics . Listen to all my mother's tirades and instructions. Commit to fulfill all this, but in a quiet way do as you see fit.