What if the child is nervous and naughty?

Quite often young parents face a situation when, in their opinion, their beloved child begins to behave inadequately. The kid can constantly get angry, swear, provoke mom or dad to scandal, not react to bans and much more. All this can easily lead parents into confusion, because of what they can make mistakes that will only aggravate the situation. In this article, we will tell you what to do if your child is very nervous and naughty, to calm the baby and help him cope with his emotions.

What to do with a naughty child?

To begin with, you need to figure out exactly what disobedience your son or daughter is showing, and what are the reasons behind it. In most cases, the behavior of a disobedient child has one of the following forms:

1. The kid again repeats what he is being punished for. Parents in this case often drop their hands, because they understand that the crumb does it on purpose. Many mothers and fathers break down on their children, shout at them, punish, for example, put in a corner or slap on the pope, and after a few days the situation repeats again. What is the reason for this behavior? Most likely, in such a family is too weak psycho-emotional connection between children and parents. Mom and Dad are too busy with work, and although they give their kid all his free time, he may not be enough. The child always needs to feel the emotions that parents experience, their affection and love for him. By their disobedience, little children just try to see you are real. Because of their inexperience, they succeed, but emotions turn out to be quite different, and not those that they lack. Try to show your child that he lacks - your love, affection, sincere interest, affection and care.
2. Sometimes a grown up child begins to fall into childhood. He pretends that he does not know how to read, count, talk, and so on, he constantly curves and tries to look small in every sense. You need to let the kid know that it's much more interesting to become an adult. You can use cunning, for example, in response to a request for crumbs to buy him a bicycle say: "We will definitely buy it, but only when you grow up a little, you're still a little." For the sake of achieving the desired, the child will quickly stop acting strangely.

What if the child is nervous, irritable and aggressive?

Disobedience is only a small part of the trouble. It is much more difficult for those parents whose kid provokes scandals and quarrels literally on an equal place. Such a child does not control emotions, can not express his wishes in words, and that is why he constantly cries and screams. Any prohibitions cause him only aggression, and the main goal in his life is to prove his worth.

In communicating with such a child, psychologists recommend adhering to the following rules:

1. Do not be fooled by a provocation and do not respond with a cry for screaming.
2. Have patience, any child sooner or later it will outgrow.
3. Always leave the baby a choice, even in small things.
4. Talking with a crumb, squat and look into his eyes.

Many parents, who are too nervous and restless child, are interested in what can be given to him as a sedative. It is not necessary to stuff the baby with medicines without special need. First, consult a doctor, and give your child medicines only if the doctor finds it necessary. In most cases, this behavior in toddlers is an age-related crisis, which simply needs to be waited. Try to give your son or daughter decoction of the motherwort before going to bed, and also add melissa and valerian decoctions to the water while bathing, and very soon everything will be all right.