Each of us has ever asked such a question, for example: "What should I choose, what should I do, should I do this?". The reason for such thoughts can be either common sense, or fear of making a mistake, or just fear . How frustrating, when because of the latter, people lose their opportunities to improve their lives and with their own hands releases their chance! Therefore, in order that you do not make a mistake because of inactivity, and not vice versa, we will try to figure out how to develop courage and permanently erase cowardice from the list of possible your problems.
Development of courage
- Learn to not regret your committed acts, and regret that you did not dare to commit. Of course, you have the right to make a mistake! Be able to benefit even from what you did not do right. Now, you know how to act next time, and only! Overcame, and went on! .. It's much worse when you are afraid of something, and some important moments of your life pass by. You do not get anything from them, absolutely nothing, neither experience, nor emotions. I hope you understand this, because, it is very important, this is the basis of everything.
- There is an opinion that courage is fearlessness. But not always so! Often, courage is not the absence of fear. Courage is the adoption of a definite decision, in which you accept the challenge of fate no matter what! It turns out that you can be scared, even very scary, but you act exactly and do it. So, if you are afraid, then this is not a reason to refuse and idle. Perhaps you are told some fears, but they do not belong in your life! …true?
- Sometimes there is a fear of "taking on the courage and responsibility." This indicates that you are unsure of yourself and your capabilities. Begin to solve the problem with this, increase your self-esteem . Just know: you will do it right!
- Many lack courage because they attach great importance to the evaluation of other people. Namely, for them
essentially care about what they think about it, what kind of opinion they have about outsiders. It is not right. After all, this is YOUR life, you and only you can make it really rich and interesting! Let doubts dissipate! .. - The difficulty, and even the problem of courage, is that cowardice and boldness are definitely antonyms, that is, words that are absolutely opposite in meaning. And it is very difficult for us to distinguish the fear of cowardice sometimes. The main thing is to understand what you want. Then, to say to myself: "I am capable of everything, I will be able to do everything in order to achieve my goal and accept the challenge of fate or circumstances!".