How to learn to lie?

To lie, as we all know, is certainly not good. But allow me, but what about "a lie for good"? No wonder there is such a thing? In order not to offend a person, get out of an awkward situation, justify someone's expectations. Sometimes, as they say, you can not lie - you will not live. And if you really lie, do not swallow. Otherwise, yourself in your lies and get bogged down.

The main thing is to believe

How to lie correctly? This, unfortunately, no one teaches us. This "valuable" experience we are developing ourselves. As in any business, it is also necessary to "sharpen" the skill. What can we do if life situations force us to graft and embellish? In order to learn to lie well, it's important to believe in yourself what you say. Your interlocutor certainly recognizes the uncertainty and versatility, so believe in your lies. If you tell your friend about a rich lover and a mad holiday in the Maldives - you simply have to mentally and in detail draw this picture. Since they decided to "throw dust in the eye," we will have to replace the memories of rest at the cottage with a neighbor Kolka for something more original.

Caution - first of all

Do not forget that and to whom you lied. Especially if different people on the same issue you provide conflicting information. You do not want these people to miss an opportunity to discuss your ugly behavior when meeting each other? .. If things are sad with the memory, start a notebook and record all your "false testimonies".

People who believe that their lies are a harmless creative improvisation risk being turned into pathological liars. Go into your fantasies, far-fetched stories and, as a consequence, contrived life - very easy and dangerous. Do not abuse the lies, live a real life. Instead of trying to puzzle over how to lie correctly and unnoticeably, think better about how to make your life more interesting, so that you do not have to lie.

It is not subject to condemnation

If a person lied, this does not mean that he does not deserve anything other than condemnation. We do not know the motives of his behavior and this act. If a friend during pregnancy due to reasons we understand lost her former gloss and began to remind more of a kolobok than a girl, while terribly complex about her appearance, are we not going to cheer her up: "What are you, you look good! Here you will bear and you will return the former form, do not experience! ».

Here it is, true friendship and that "lie for good". Do not forget to just register with your girlfriend in the gym when her baby grows up and you can leave it with your dad. And what? Let him take part in the upbringing, so that he himself does not have to lie.