You love the moralizing "live right", "you do it wrong", "all your actions are wrong"? Probably not, and few people will be able to listen to advice for a long time, how to live properly. And there is nothing wrong with this - everyone himself must live his life, find his way, if you want, and other people's interference is inappropriate here. Therefore, the negative reaction to numerous exhortations is quite justified. Hence the first life rule - the council will be heard only when it is needed, so tell others how to live properly if you are asked to do so. But it's always easier to talk about someone else's life than to understand your own. What does it mean to live properly, and how to learn it?
Do I live right?
If in your head the question was born, do I live right, then, most likely, with this you have problems. If everything was in order, there would be no place in your thoughts for such questions. Most often this happens when you do not get what you want. That is, you are doing something - work, study, look for new areas of application for your talents, but none of this brings you closer to the goal. And all because you do not what follows, you often go on about their desires. The main trick is to learn to want to do what is right. Well, in order to realize where you can move without planning (at least a minimum), you can not do it. Identify clear goals, which you want to achieve by a certain time. After that, think through the options for achieving the goal and start moving forward.
But the situation can be different - you are all right, and in the opposite you are assured, relatives, neighbors, casual interlocutors, in general, all who are not lazy. In this case, you should explain to all "well-wishers" that if you need someone's advice, you must ask him, and until then it's better to refrain from commenting on your personal life.
How to learn to live right?
Suppose that you yourself realize that your life is not all smooth. What to do in this case, how to start living right? Perhaps the following observations will answer you to this question.
- Planning, working for the future is wonderful, but there's nothing worse than putting off your happiness "for tomorrow." Start enjoying life right now, not forgetting the progress towards the goal.
- You can expect a suitable moment if you are going to exchange currency at a favorable rate and you know that by the end of the week it will just be like this. But to wait for a favorable time, having no preconditions for that, is silly. You can never meet a banker who will provide you with a comfortable existence, you can never be lucky in a lottery, the boss can never notice your talents and do not make the project manager. So stop dreaming and hope for mythical luck, start acting now.
- Some people bring all their failures to Fate, it's very convenient. But let's be realistic - perhaps some outline of events and determined from above, but it is unlikely that our every step is recorded in the book of Forensics, which means that we can change everything.
- All people are different, you know this? So, there is no need to turn anyone into your faith, it is better to try to find something else for yourself in the beliefs of another person. Learn from other people - it's not embarrassing and never too late.
- Are you told that you are living the wrong way? The best way to convince in the opposite is not to argue until it's hoarse, but a good life. Begin to live so that you every day bring joy, allow yourself to be an optimist. Seeing that you are happy, people will stop talking about the incorrectness of your actions.
- Do not envy anyone, everyone has problems, just someone better actor than you. Remember, the rich also cry, and the girl with a sunny smile lonely evenings reflects on the best way of suicide. So stop envying, you better become an object for envy.
- Do not be afraid to confess ignorance, know everything is impossible, be afraid of ignorance, that is unwillingness to learn anything.
- Money should not become an end in itself, they are just a means. And if you do not live half-starved and have a roof over your head, then you do not need to sleep enough in an attempt to earn an extra penny.
- Do not try to be good for everyone, condemn even the saints, so do
something that brings satisfaction to you. - Do not try to seem better than in reality - only the forces will be wasted. Pokazuha - destiny of teenagers, you in fact already left this age?
- In life, there is a place for success and failure, great happiness and staggering sorrow. Accept everything with gratitude, without the absence of these poles, we would never be able to appreciate what is good in life - friendship, love, kindness, joy.
And at last - to read smart books it is necessary, but the best lessons are taught by Life. So start to act and do not be afraid of mistakes, no one is immune from them.