Many women live on the principle of "less you know - better sleep, just to not hit and bring home money", but most of the ladies will certainly want to figure out the deceiver. By the way, psychologists also believe that it is better to recognize male betrayal at the initial stage, since in this case it will be easier to "rework" it. Among the most obvious signs of infidelity is the smell of other women's spirits, the presence of condoms in pockets, if you have long since abandoned them and the traces of someone else's lipstick. True, most men have learned to follow such obvious moments, and get rid of them carefully, but there are other signals of betrayal.
How to recognize the betrayal of her husband?
- Very often men start to watch themselves, only when an interesting woman appears on the horizon. Therefore, in order to recognize the betrayal of a guy or husband, pay attention to appearance, since if you have been together for a long time, then, most likely, he stopped dressing up, you will accept him in any way. And if, on such a background, your lover starts to follow himself, this can be caused not by a desire to please you.
- If a loved one was previously quite lazy and tried to shirk from work under any pretext, and suddenly he was loaded with an urgent evening job or he had to travel often on business trips, this is also an excuse to be on the alert. Especially if he never finds time to answer your calls, referring to a huge amount of work, and money in the family does not become any more.
- Recognize the betrayal of the guy will help and the way he began to spend money. For example, he began to buy something for a car (computer) all the time, saying it was a permanent breakdown, but there is no special reason for that - the car was purchased a couple of months ago and the loved one uses it only for traveling to and from work.
- If earlier your pious computer used to view mail and movies only, and now a lot of hours began to correspond with someone in the chat, moreover, carefully and carefully concealing from you the correspondence, this too can be a sign of the appeared mistress. The same applies to telephone conversations, and SMS-communication. Although wizened traitors usually remove all traces of the presence of another woman in the phone (writing them under the names of men or the names of mobile operators).
- To recognize the betrayal of her husband, look at how he began to behave in everyday life. Often a man, when dealing with a woman, involuntarily acquires new habits: for example, he suddenly became gallant, acquired new culinary preferences or changed his opinion about some musical collective or film. Changes in intimate life are also important - a constant rejection of intimacy or, on the contrary, an explosion of sexual fantasies can also talk about the presence of another woman.
- You stopped talking, then, as before your husband was happy to share cases at work, supported the conversation about relatives and common acquaintances. At the same time, he can make reservations, remembering conversations that were not, and noticing his blunder, to prove that you have all forgotten this. And he did not care much where and with whom you spend time, you can talk with your friends as much as you like, spend the weekend outside the house, it does not bother him.
- Even the most notorious traitors periodically tormented by conscience, and if treason happened first, then the guilt can not escape. In this case, the man becomes very irritable, constantly nagging at you, sometimes intermingling it with flashes of tenderness.
- He suddenly began to talk often about other women, colleagues at work or the boss's wife. Perhaps she even scolds her habits, or says she does not endure it, but she has to communicate.
With such tricks a man covers his hobby, accustoming you to the idea that he is constantly in contact with another woman, but this is exclusively a working relationship.
It is worth noting that all of the above signs can, how to help recognize the betrayal of a man, and lead to completely erroneous conclusions. For example, a man can really start a lot of money to spend on a car, well, it happens, then an electrician, then the running starts to act up, as if someone spoils an iron horse. Or you can really get less money, because you took a loan, and loved until the night at work - to earn somehow it is necessary. Therefore, it is not necessary only because of the presence of one sign to reproach your husband for infidelity, look for at least 2-3 signs.