Even in couples where there is love and tenderness, no, no, but there are quarrels. After the dissonance, the desire to reconcile may arise immediately, or may appear in a couple of days, but in any case, it is necessary to establish relationships and often we have to do it to us, women. So how to make peace with your beloved man or boyfriend and when it's best done we will discuss in our today's material.
When to put up with your beloved?
The idea "I want to make peace with my beloved" arose almost immediately after the quarrel? Take your time, let the passions rest a little. Both you and your opponent have something to think about. Yes, and your tears, tantrums and screams do not help to establish relationships. Therefore, the first thing to do after an argument is to calm down tears and calm down. Well, after that, it remains only to realize your guilt (in any quarrel, both are always to blame, which means that your fault is in the incident) and go to reconciliation.
How to reconcile with your loved one?
Do you think how to reconcile with your beloved? Yes, which is easier, go to him and say "forgive me." But this is too trite and this option is not suitable for everyone. What else can you think of to reconcile with your loved one?
- Beginning of reconciliation is possible with small - from SMS-messages. Write your favorite beautiful romantic sms, you can and in verse. If after the first of your message the reaction does not follow, but you know that it was delivered, write your beloved one more, maybe he is very offended at you and wants a little more attention. And so you show him that making peace with you is very important and you really regret your quarrel.
- Do not you want to torment your mobile phone? Use e-mail, of course, if your loved one uses it often enough to notice your letter.
- If you know that a loved one is constantly listening to some radio station, then try to get on the air and apologize in this way to your man. Well, in addition, order for him a song - his favorite, or the one with which you have pleasant memories from both of you. If there is no certainty that a loved one heard your performance, you can record it (for example, on a dictaphone that is in any mobile phone).
- If you live in the same territory, you can come home early and prepare an apartment for the upcoming reconciliation. For example, hang all over the apartment posters with the word "Forgive!" And notes with different warm words.
- Well, a classic way to make up, of course, is a romantic dinner with candles with an equally romantic continuation. And the beginning to such reconciliation can be simple words, with which you will express your desire to make peace and say how difficult it is for you to quarrel. The main thing at this moment is not to blame the partner in anything, even if you think that he is wrong. It's better to talk about this when you make up and forget the insults.
Loved does not want to be reconciled - what to do?
How to reconcile with a loved one, when he does not want to do it at all and does not react to all your attempts at all? It is necessary to retreat for a while. Probably, your beloved needs more time to comprehend the situation and move away from a quarrel than you.
How to prevent quarrels?
How difficult it is to approach and ask forgiveness first! To save yourself from such torture, try not to quarrel. Yes, sometimes it's difficult to resist a stormy clarification of relations, but everything is in your power. Psychologists recommend often quarreling couples to come up with some kind of code word, which will mean that you need to stop discussing the problem for a while. And it will be necessary to return to the conversation only when you both cool down and will be able to conduct a dialogue - give your own arguments and listen to the opinion of your loved one.