In psychology, the following explanation is given to the person who is a choleric "bright, emotional, mobile, loud-speaking person". He likes to be in the center of attention, vividly expresses his feelings and emotions. In addition, impetuous, passionately carried away, unbalanced. He has a sharp change of mood and a deep immersion in his favorite business.
At the same time, psychologists believe that at present it is impossible to meet a person with a pure type of temperament, that is, not choleric persons in pure form. It will necessarily be a combination with other types of characters. Temperament choleric in this case will always prevail.
What type of nervous system is characteristic of a choleric person?
First of all, these are the obvious leaders who like to be in the spotlight. People around him are attracted to the personal qualities of this person. Choleric always tries to express his personal opinion, so most often he is considered the main instigator of disputes. It is independent and resolute, active and restless, quickly responding to all people. His speech is always accompanied by a rather expressive facial expressions and sharp gestures.
What is a choleric person?
Choleric is a person who lives his mind. He is good at hiding his emotions, and makes all decisions only after careful consideration.
Temperament type "choleric" has its own portrait data. They are people of slim build with well-developed thin limbs. The face has the shape of an oval with an even forehead and a pointed chin.
Pros and cons of choleric
Their features are children and parents, choleric people, which need to be taken into account by all surrounding people. A small choleric because of his age can not quickly calm down. He will be irritated for a long time because of any little things. He prefers mobile, noisy games. He falls asleep heavily and sleeps restlessly.
Pedagogical psychologists believe that choleric parents are often despots and "domestic tyrants", because they require their children to be completely subordinated. This manner of behavior is explained by the good intentions of the parent: each of them wants to see his child successful. That is why parents-choleric people want to teach by their own example of purposefulness.
On the other hand, at work choleric persons do not differ with great diligence and attentiveness. They can not perform monotonous operations. With a competent approach to the organization of labor, when the higher leadership gives the opportunity to feel freedom for the choleric-subordinate, the worker will show all his persistence in achieving the goal.
A fairly charismatic personality is the choleric chief. This is a leader , a despot and a tyrant all rolled into one. It is always difficult to convince him. He lives the result and interest in the work. Harmony in the collective comes only in the event that all subordinates unquestioningly carry out its directives.
Experts say that any temperament can be adjusted. How to do this choleric?
- First of all, after experimenting a little, "pull out" the features of another temperament on the surface.
- Negative emotions do not contain, but not spill over to others.
The best thing is to translate them into positive ones by exercising and playing sports. - More openly express their positive emotions.
- Yoga and meditation will help develop intuition, make not only the body flexible, but also thinking. As a result, there will be flexibility in dealing with others. Choleric will learn to take into account the point of view of other people, see the situation from the other side.
- It is not necessary to strive in everything and always be a leader, to impose controlling functions on other people.