Probably, everyone, sooner or later, realizes that he could have been better. When it becomes difficult for us with ourselves, it means that we are talking about a complex character. In principle, there are no simple characters, because each of us is unique, which means that it is very difficult to understand the other from our "belltower". But we still dwell on the moment when it's hard to understand yourself.
If some of your character traits interfere with people, make new acquaintances, work, learn, in the end, live fully, you call yourself a person with a complex character. It is like an obstacle to a normal life.
When you reward yourself with this term, you have two choices:
- in communicating with people justify the phrase "I have a complex character";
- find strength in yourself and change what prevents living.
Since the first option is easy to understand and most, we'll talk about the second paragraph.
How to deal with a complex character?
Is it necessary to emphasize that a girl with a complex character, no matter how beautiful and clever she may be, will face a lot of obstacles in her personal life.
We propose to start with recognition. Admit to yourself that there are some features (list them) that spoil your life and those around you. Do not fight with yourself, but recognize who you are.
Then you need to start a diary. In it you will record all those outbreaks of negative features that you noticed during the day. So you will become more observant and over time, you will be able to prevent the outbreak of this outbreak, feeling that "now it will begin." Have the support of loved ones. Ask them not to reproach you, draw your attention to the splashes of the negative character, at the moment when it happens.
Surround yourself with a positive. Try to communicate with positive people who do not have a complex character. After all, our behavior is contagious and you can communicate, learn to behave in a different way.