Each person has a character - this is scientifically proven. There are traits inherent in us because of heredity, which arose because of the characteristics of the environment, etc. But what is a man with a character? What do we mean when we say "he has a character"?
Making the character
What we mean is what we mean. Everyone puts his own thoughts into the meaning of what has been said. But in general, the point is that "a person with a character" is a person who is able to cross his "do not want" and "can not", and do what is required of her. This is a strong-willed person.
So, of course, you would like to know how to temper the character and how to become a "character" person.
Difficulties
They say that difficulties temper nature. And this has its own truth. After all, a person who has survived what most of us have not experienced will certainly react to our "catastrophes" as to the small things of life. But the difficulties will come of their own, we can not call them, and it is not necessary.
Exercises
There are different exercises that can be the answer to the question that torments us: how to temper the will and character.
First of all, this is the goal. Set a goal, assign a date for its execution. Be mentally prepared for what you need to exclude yourself in something for the sake of the goal, and then, start your journey.
Only the goal should be really important for you.
There is a simpler way: make yourself look at the second hand of the clock every day for 2 minutes. At the same time, forbid yourself to think about anything, and as soon as you visit the smallest thought - start over.
And, third, but not the last. Do what you fear. You're afraid to show yourself to your ex, who, as you know, is not alone anymore, go and go. Behave yourself in a friendly, direct way, destroy everything "I do not want," "I'm afraid," "I can not," and you will defeat yourself.
A person with a character is always the one who has triumphed over his weaknesses.