Each girl in the depths of her soul wants to have a best friend who knows everything about you and even more, who would always come to the rescue in a difficult moment and would share with you moments of joy. However, do not forget that being a friend is a talent and skill that needs to be developed and improved. Friendship is a relationship built on trust, understanding and common interests, so to answer the question: "How to become a good friend?" First of all, you need to remember that to become the best friend you need to work very hard on yourself.
How to become best friends: 5 golden rules
- Show interest to your girlfriend. Sincerely interested in her personal life, ask how she feels in this or that situation. Daily share with her positive emotions , talk about what you saw where you were, do not hide the true emotions. If your friend is unwell, be sure to visit her and treat her with favorite treats. In general, show a sincere interest in the life of your girlfriend.
- Learn to listen. Let my friend share with you news, actively participate in the conversation, learn to read between the lines, in no case do you get answers like "Yes", "No" and "Understandable". If you really learn to listen to a girlfriend, very soon you will begin to feel her and understand her attitude to anything before she expresses her thoughts to you.
- Spend more time together. In the rhythm of modern life, it is very difficult to find time, at least to call your beloved friend and ask how her affairs are. However, as you know, if you do not throw firewood on the fire, it will go out in the course of time, it also happens with friendship. If you do not have time to walk with your girlfriend, try to at least have dinner together, or if she, for example, is busy with the household, offer her help. Such pastime can be much more interesting and useful for both of you.
- By more often praise a girlfriend. Notice the situations in which the girlfriend behaves well, and do not hesitate to tell her about it. If you do not agree with her actions, correctly express your point of view, while making it clear that whatever decision she did not take, you will in any case support it.
- Share with your girlfriend both joy and sorrow. When a person is in trouble, there are dozens of people who rush to help with their advice, but when something good happens in the girl's life,
few people are ready to sincerely rejoice over it. So rejoice for a friend, as if this happy event happened to you, because how to become a best friend if you do not know how to share the happiness of a person close to you?
Think about what qualities your best friend should have? Write them on a piece of paper and read aloud, now you know exactly how to become the best friend, because what we appreciate in people, they appreciate in us. Work on yourself, improve your communication skills with people and remember, you can become a good friend only if you really sincerely want it.