Every day we come across different types of people, with different characters and temperaments. Perhaps you have had to deal with people who are pretty hot-tempered. Incontinence is the main characteristic of such personalities. And there is no point in condemning them for this. Such people can only sympathize. After all their weak nervous system is capable to provoke at them development of an asthma, cardiovascular diseases and so forth.
Emotional instability
So, emotional incontinence is how much, not a disease, but a personality disorder. It is characterized by impulsiveness in decision-making, outbursts of negative emotions, a problem with the control of one's own actions, excessive irritability.
Looking from the side to an emotionally unstable personality, one gets the impression that she is not capable of controlling herself. This is due to the fact that the above signs in these people are constantly and do not depend on situations, stress factors, etc.
Individuals with emotional incontinence are not able to control their irritability with what is happening around. They are trying to find the reasons for splashing out their emotions. It is worth noting that such people are impatient to the opinions of others and do not tolerate criticism and objection.
Emotional incontinence is characterized by various causes of its occurrence. This can be either as a result of head trauma, various diseases (multiple sclerosis), or the transferred emotional tension, somatic disorders, etc.
Classification
Unrestraint is divided into borderline and impulsive.
- Borderline emotional incontinence is characterized by increased impressionability, vivid imagination. People who are of this type are too close to their heart to perceive personal failures or obstacles that occur in their lives. They often exaggerate any circumstances that have happened, and this often leads to stress. Such incontinence finds its manifestation as early as adolescence. During this period, the adolescent's desires prevail over the generally accepted prohibitions, rules. Such individuals are characterized by restlessness, frequent change of mood, which is the cause of inattention. People with borderline emotional incontinence suffer from a violation of self-identification, a manifestation of personal weakness in solving life problems. Sometimes this can be the cause of bad habits, an offense, the appearance of depression. Incontinence, swagger in behavior is characteristic of some of this type of people. The main features of the manifestation of imbalance in the behavior of such people are: jealousy, which is unjustified, conflictual and suicidal blackmail is not ruled out.
- For impulsive emotional incontinence is characterized by increased excitability of the nervous system. People of this type react to small, annoying factors as if they were directed against them. Children with impulsively emotional incontinence show resentment, aggression, capriciousness, and hysteria. If such a person has not managed to become a leader, to take a leading position, she is locked in herself, restraining her aggression against the world around her.
The main signs of this type are: the game of negative emotions "to the public", bouts of anger and rage.
The behavior of such people pushes them from others, and in this regard, in individuals with emotional incontinence, an even more cruel person is formed who is not able to build friendly relations with the world around her.
So, every person is sometimes unable to cope with the emotions that overwhelmed him. But do not forget that over your emotions, the nervous system you need to work, so as not to be at the touch of your emotional state.