Communication is an integral part of our daily life. Every day we pronounce thousands of words, enclosing them in sentences, and do not even think about their strength and meaning. Although many events are related to what, to whom and how we speak. Today we will understand how to properly talk with people.
How to learn to speak correctly?
Let's be honest - we all consider ourselves to be sufficiently educated and enlightened people. And we always want to demonstrate our level of knowledge to some extent, especially when first meeting with interlocutors. So, the first advice - you should not do this. Try to be as restrained as possible in conversation, listen more to others, express your opinion in a compact, capacious manner. Let the people talk out, because each of us likes to be listened to. Surprisingly, it is the ability to listen to teach you how to correctly and competently talk with interlocutors. Listening to your interlocutors, you can draw for yourself certain conclusions, both in terms of building communication, and about his / her preferences, which in turn will tell you on what topics you can start an interesting conversation.
Purity of speech
Keep in mind that, no matter how your interlocutors communicate with each other, stick to pure, competent speech . Forget the friendly turns and street lingo, discard the word-parasites and try not to use professionalism, obscure to others. To begin with, show that cultural speech is not alien to you, that communication using a literary language is what you do every day. Therefore, it is important to learn how to speak correctly and beautifully. Only after you are admitted to your company, you can relax your linguistic center and use a couple of jargon. Otherwise, you risk, at least, be misunderstood and not accepted.